The word to describe requirements within the community; Trust (Ortmann & Sprott, 2015; SilverRoses, personal communication June 26, 2020), communication (Ortmann & Sprott, 2015; SilverRoses, personal communication June 26, 2020), boundaries (Pitagora, 2016; SilverRoses, personal communication June 26, 2020; Simula, 2019), safety (K. Sellers, personal communication, June 26, 2020), Transparency (Pitagora, 2016, Simula, 2019), consent (Pitagora, 2016), Intimacy - (Ortmann & Sprott, 2015; SilverRoses, personal communication June 26, 2020)
characteristic of the atmosphere in both consensual nonmonogamy and kink communities (Carlstrom & Andersson, 2019)
(Carlstrom & Andersson, 2019, p. 16; Pitagora, 2016, p. 392, Simula, 2019, p. 11), boundaries (K. Sellers, personal communication, June 26, 2020), explicit agreements (Carlstrom & Andersson, 2019, p. 16), and may include rules (K. Sellers, personal communication, June 26, 2020), contracts (K. Sellers, personal communication, June 26, 2020), renegotiation (R. Hesse, personal communication June 27, 2020), limits, signals,and safewords (Ortmann & Sprott, 2015)
a term invented by Dan Savage to describe a socially monogamous couple who occasionally engage in consensual non-monogamy (NM, 2020).
(two words, no space) these may occur when a person of either community is outed; may include employment, familial, housing, social groups (Pitagora, 2016), stigma (Pitagora, 2016, Simula, 2019), discrimination (Pitagora, 2016), prejudice (Simula, 2019).
acronym for bondage and discipline, Dominance and submission, sadomasochism. This is a subculture of kink (Ortman & Sprott, 2015; Pitagora, 2016).
Abbreviation for Consensual Non-monogamy (Pitagora, 2016, p. 392), includes swinging, polyamory, and open relationships (Flicker, 2019)
a single person, commonly a bisexual female, who is looking to be added to a couple and love both equally.
“wide range of relationship styles and configurations” (Pitagora, 2016, p. 392); “a relationship paradigm incorporating more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved” (Ortmann & Sprott, 2015, location 369)
process by which new persons to scene or group need to be referred by others in group that are known (K. Sellers, personal communication, June 26, 2020).
This type of behavior should occur in all relationships. (Pitagora, 2016; R. Hesse, personal communication June 26, 2020)
the typical way of life of an individual, group, or culture (Miriam-Webster, 2020)